Who You Are Has Nothing To Do With Your Story
We may think we are this way or that way because of our story.
If this is your belief, this is where you will be stuck.
The truth though, is that the story is there for you to self-realize. For you to get to know who you truly are.
EVERYTHING in your life is happening for you to drop deeper within yourself.
If you get emotionally triggered by an outside event, this is happening for you to become aware of- and dissolve the charge.
Hence the phrase:
The cave your fear to enter holds the treasure you seek.